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Making Money is easier than finding a Good wife

 I'm pretty sure you're all captivated by such title right?, Well that's a line that came from some already made single young men, we know it will be a different story for other young men  who are still struggling to make money, 

I want y'all to read a post from a particular colleague of mine who just got married few months ago, and decided to  write some of the encounters he had with his single colleagues,


Read what he wrote below 

“No jokes…

I have a lot of friends who are earning tens and hundreds of millions of Naira monthly looking for who to marry.

On many occasions they have asked for my advice.

I rarely give them a comprehensive advice because I’m just new in this ministry.

There were cases I tried linking them up to beautiful ladies on this platform.

I would copy the lady’s link and send to them so that they can take it from there.

I did not matchmake anyone.

I didn’t tell them who to marry.

All I did was to show them a couple of cool-headed ladies with A-list sense. My friends are highly focused individuals.

One confession they all had in common is that making money is easier than finding a wife.

It becomes even more difficult when you’ve become a little bit popular and lives an exotic lifestyle.

If this is true, the question is…

Is it still possible to find a life partner that will love you for real when you are already counting in millions as a single man or lady?

The answer is yes.

Aside the Biblical standard of measuring true love as explained in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, here are other ways to know if you should propose to her or accept his proposal:

- Has he or she discovered himself or herself?

I’m talking about his/her purpose on earth?

- Does the person love God? 

Anyone that doesn’t love God can’t love you. A time will come when his/her love will be tested. It often happens in the first 3 months.

- Who does he or she listen to most?

A man or woman that follow and listen to fake prophets, online mami water and fraudsters is the wrongest person you’d like to spend the rest of your life with.

Before you fall in love (when you should be growing in love instead) ask questions.

- Does he or she share the same belief and philosophy as you do?

There should be something both of you share in common.

- How teachable is he or she?

Marriage is about learning from each other. If he or she is not someone that can learn from others (I don’t mean being controllable) don’t propose nor accept yet.

- How does he/she treat strangers, especially people who are lower than him/her?

That’s a fragment of how he or she is going to treat you and your friends in future.

- Is he or she a giver?

Don’t have anything to do with a stingy man or woman. A stingy person will frustrate you.

You don’t have to be greedy to test his or her ability to give.

- Be independent before marriage

If you are an urgent 2k kind of person, what you need is not marriage but financial independence. Go for it first.

Did I miss something? Add it in the comments section.

If you think you have the power to change anyone, think again.

PS: I hope I didn’t scatter someone’s Valentine date? If I did, I’m sorry. But there’s nothing you can do to me.

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