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Being Rich, doesn't mean you're ready for Marriage

Good day scholars, today I would love to shed some lights on whether or not a guy is ready for Marriage, and just as the title of this post said, “Being rich and wealthy doesn't make you ready for marriage!”

Some guys think the fact that they can pay bride price, means they are ready for marriage, that's is a big lie. 

Some believe that as far as they have their house, car and job, they are ready for marriage, which is another big lie. Marriage goes beyond all that. 

Marriage is a ministry and you need the Grace of God to succeed. You don't go into marriage based on how much you have in your bank account or the house and the cars you have. 

Your marriage is supposed to be a place that heals your spouse and not one that inflicts more pain or sends them to the past. It is supposed to be the arms that mend and not the one that damages. 

The fact that you can pay for something does not mean you can afford it. Affording comes with maintenance and responsibilities. You can pay for bride price but the real question is, can you afford to keep your woman in love with you till the end of time? 


You have a big and nice house, can you and your spouse live in that house in peace and continue to love each other until the end of time? It is not about having the latest or most expensive car, it’s about riding happily and laughing together as you journey. 


Marriage is not about impregnating her, but being a good example to the child you bring into this world, by first respecting the woman you call your wife, loving and caring for her, cherishing and appreciating her before diapers and wipes. 


Young woman, marriage is not about how beautiful you are or how good you are in bed, but how you talk to your man, respect him, make him feel like a king, how you turn that house into a palace for him, how you praise and honour him. 


Forget about your status.You will always be under your husband. The most handsome crown a man wants to wear is the woman who respects him and knows how to talk to him, who makes time to pray for him, who encourages him. 

The most beautiful clothes that can dress up a wife are the arms of the husband she loves, which make her feel like a queen. Arms to which she is the sole proprietor. thanks for reading this post.

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