Scholarship Note

 When you marry a man who has been your friend for years, esp one who is a good listener, you naturally assume that you can dump on him all the time. After you get married,the temptation is to focus on him To the exclusion of your female friends. Don't buy into the lie that your husband has become your all in all. You need female besties. Women who are in all walks of life, single, married, biz owners and employees, mummies and waiting moms. There are things you want to discuss  That only a fellow woman will understand or even appreciate. Yes, there are many men who are great listeners but if yours rolls his eyes occ because he doesn't get why it's so important that you found a human hair seller who gave you the 5% discount 😝 Don't get frustrated  A great way to make friends is to serve. Help someone hold her baby while she serves herself at the buffet. Pay someone a compliment. Reply someone's DM. Look into their eyes and smile. Make friends with the moms of your

 A man got a girl pregnant when they were teenagers. His mother supported him when he denied the pregnancy. Words had it that the lady, while in labor, used her finger to scoop some sweat drops on her thigh, licked it & placed a curse on him & one of his sisters that also supported him. "He would never find peace in any woman he meets in future".  "She will never have children of her own". Many years later, man got a wife. Wife was pregnant but suddenly became sick. She died with the baby & her burial was filled with a lot of chaos. Sister,  till date never had her own child. Wealthy & now in her 50s with an adopted child. Man's Mother died in some strange circumstances. The love child is already a woman & married with her own children. The uncanny resemblance with her father is unquestionable. Man had to go seek  for forgiveness with his kinsmen. He was already 50, no child, no wife. Woman forgave him after so many pleas & pacification.